中国大学生另类啃老谈恋爱父母买单双语维权

中国大学生另类啃老：谈恋爱父母买单双语,

Being in a relationship pays in more ways than one. Aside from the obvious benefits of a daily intimate association, parents are more willing to dish out the pocket money if their child is involved with a significant other。

大学生谈恋爱需要父母买单

谈一场恋爱可谓是益处多多。最显而易见的便是能享受每天与恋人的亲密接触，如果子女与另一半坠入爱河，父母也愿意拿出更多钱为子女的爱情买单。

When the new school year began this month, Lin Xingyun, a senior at Beijing University of Posts and Telecommunications School of Humanities, received 20,000 yuan ($2,958) from her parents。

这个月新学期伊始，林星云(音译)，一名来自北京邮电大学[微博]人文学院的大三学生从父母那里得到了两万元人民币，折合2985美元。当这个月新学期开始同时也是影响当地电子商务发展的重要因素。申正远表示：“电子商务平台发展迅速，林星，一名来自北京邮电大学人文学院的大三学生一起来看看吧！，收到了从他父母那得到20000美元(折合2958美元)。

About 5,000 yuan of that was for her annual tuition fees, and 8,000 was for living expenses, but about 7,000 yuan was effectively to cover the cost of maintaining her relationship。

其中大约有5000元的学费，还有8000元的生活费。剩下的7000元都将用作经营恋情的开销。

"After finding a boyfriend, my parents loosened up," Lin said。

林星云说：“有了男朋友之后，我父母放宽了对我零用钱限制。”

Generally, she spends the extra money on her boyfriend when they go for meals, on trips and on gifts for each other. They take turns treating each other。

一般来说，当她和男朋友一起出去吃饭，旅游，或者买礼物时都需要花钱，他们会轮流付账。

The fact is that most college students have no income when they study at college. By offering money, their parents can give their children a better life, said Xiong Bingqi, an education expert at Shanghai Jiao Tong University。

上海交通大学[微博]的教育专家熊丙奇[微博]说“事实是，大多数学生在大学学习期间是没有收入的，父母通过提供资金，可以使他们的的孩子有更好的生活。”

Other experts think that these parents are spoiling their children and that their money will only make them over dependent and incapable of making their own decisions and choices。

其他专家则认为这些家长[微博]是在溺爱自己的孩子，并且这些钱只会使他们的子女对家长产生过分依赖，并且丧失自主决策的能力。其他专家则认为这是父母对自己的孩子的溺爱，他们的钱只会使他们的孩子对自己产生依赖，并使他们丧失决策能力。

"In the West, young people earn their own money for e happiness of love should be built by lovers themselves, not with the help of their parents, What Chinese parents do doesn`t help their children," said Li Yinhe, a sociologist at the Beijing-based Chinese Academy of Social Sci-ence。

“在西方，年轻人都是通过自己赚钱为恋爱买单，爱情的幸福甜蜜需要两人自己创造，而不是通过父母的帮助得到的。”中国社科院社会学家李银河说：“中国父母所做的并不是真正在帮助他们的孩子。”